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Got used to the recognition of outstanding student, after the teacher once criticized, not here to walk not talk, "autistic" month -
What makes today's kids so fragile
□ correspondent Shen Lu told reporters Lina Zhang Lihong
The teacher did not expect a simple criticism of his action, would allow the class of junior high school girls have been outstanding Lingling (a pseudonym) autistic month.
A few days ago, Ling Ling came to Hangzhou seven hospital admissions experts found no malingering Lingling, indeed self-esteem greatly harmed by the PCG reaction caused by psychological factors such temporary physical function disorders.
Although this is a rare case,scarpe hogan da donna-prezzi, but at the same school teachers are very mixed feelings: Why are kids so fragile, can not afford a little criticism and frustration? Does it have a certain relationship with the appreciation in recent years highlight education? Today, education is not required setback education needs?
[Case]
Excellent girls 'autism'
Lingling is Lin'an, 15 years old this year, is on the junior high school.
"Most people into the psychological clinic, is a man quietly come in, but boy, was carrying her mother came in." Ho-ming, said Ling-Ling could not walk at first thought that physiological factors, who knows something after his examination found Ling-Ling's nervous system without any problems.
"What is it, how old?" Ho Ming try to find the easiest way to communicate with the girl,woolrich uomo, and she reached pointed mouth, indicating that he will not speak.
"The reason my daughter will become so, and that they had to blame the teacher." Speaking of her daughter's strange disease,nike requin tn pas cher, Ling-Ling mom hated.
That class, Lingling it was fiction storyline hanging too uncomfortable, you can not help but out of view. Unexpectedly, loaded with books to hide the good, the teacher found that the novel came to be confiscated, and Ling-Ling's head patted.
Lingling childhood excellent results, so the teacher in front of the whole class of criticism, that's the first time the first time. So she immediately burst into tears, since not speak, do not walk.
"Now the home is generally only one child, which the parents are willing to hit the child, not to mention the curse, we usually talk to her, not even a little louder." Lingling distressed mother complained, "My daughter is so good, why should the The teacher was wronged by this ah? "
"The little girl did not pretend to be sick, this is the kind of heart sounds reaction." Ho Ming said, because the teacher's criticism, she felt damaged reputation, self-esteem greatly harmed, the psychological factors that lead to physical function temporarily disorders.
Ling-Ling's exclusion of psychological disorders, is not difficult. Ho Ming first taught her a simple sound, then let her read a newspaper, and finally burst into singing. After tens of minutes, Lingling restored the ability to speak and walk.
But why Lingling at home has been really out? Ho Ming said: "The key issue in the child's mother who always put the child holding in her hand, a mistake not to criticize, but also to help with their children but also how to blame the teachers that allow children to let go.?"
A meaningful election defeat
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"Because prepared, finally unanimously adopted." Speaking of her election process, Xiaojie mother is very mixed feelings.
Why to run for the vice squad? This is also when  learned from talking.
After  school performance has been very good, not very good results, in the class has been a squad leader. By sophomore semester class cadre re-election,  want to re-squad,woolrich milano, but eventually lost.
"Unsuccessful for many reasons, but the most important one is that teachers want their children to be a little setback education." Xiao Jie said his mother, a teacher told myself before the campaign communicated, said Xiao Jie as small to large, whether academic or other aspects are particularly good, but the biggest drawback is that not withstand criticism, sometimes the occasional teacher or classmate said she was not good enough,basket requin tn, she would be sad for a long time, and often in tears.
Xiao Jie said his mother, in fact, this issue also found herself, but has been I do not know where to start. The teacher's good intentions, so she was particularly emotion.
Sure enough, after the defeat,  not home started to cry, did not understand to complain that he did well in all aspects,http://wx.weijishidai.com/thread-2173826-1-1.html,nike air max tn requin, there is no mistake, there is no reason to not be elected.
When her mother to give her daughter to do the work  repeatedly emphasized that although she is very good, but the other kids are very good, there are glittering. "The teacher also talked with her, and finally the child slowly figured out." Xiao Jie said his mother,http://qmazu.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=566308&extra=, since then, the children face a lot of criticism openly.
[Survey]
10 parents of nine children did not dare criticize
Chinese have a saying, "sticks out under the dutiful son", talking about the education of frustration respected. But these recent years, with the exchange of Chinese and Western educational philosophy,woolrich outlet, appreciation of education are increasingly being raised, and getting worse.
"We often go to extremes, the original extreme 'sticks education', and is now almost the 'sticks education' negated,http://www.xiyaschool.com.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=116249, and went to the extreme 'appreciation of education' in." Morning e family friends "Qiaoxiaoqianxi" was a elementary school teacher,http://www.cacenglish.com/index.php?item/create_form/1, she said she once met a student, because the teacher did not complete the job a few critics, even going home to pick up the bag,air max 90 pas cher, and said do not go to school later. "Children are followed by grandparents grew up, grew up to be spoiled, even Mom and Dad are afraid to criticize him."
Reporters in the students did a small survey, eight students, high school students and 12. 14 people said, usually at home, parents are much praise and less criticism. There is a primary school also said that in the home are his final say, even if what is required, the parents did not agree, as long as they cried, flew Mozhe.
Reporter survey of 10 parents in the Morning e home base. It was agreed that children should be appreciated when education education education and setbacks in parallel, but nine parents said, the reality rarely criticize the child, not even dare to criticize, because a little criticism, the children made a variety of temper. Also, how to conduct specific setback education, many parents also expressed no clue.
[Argument]
Appreciation of education is not a simple recognition
"Appreciation Education is the foundation, but also the proper conduct of setback education." Headland High School vice principal glad level of moral thought, appreciation of education and education have mastered a degree of frustration.
"Now the kids are basically only one child, or even a 'second generation', a common problem they encounter is that too much to hear the sound of praise,http://www.jfhuzhu.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=658826, criticism too, so often encountered criticism would not accept one. "Happy Ping said, and now some setbacks at every turn a child away from home or even commit suicide, with parents, school education are inseparable.
However,soldes air jordan, when the children's education is important setbacks, parents must learn to communicate with children. Note also that a child does something wrong to criticize principles: not the person.
Shen Hung river island primary school principals believe that we can not simply equated appreciation of education praise, appreciation of education is also tricky.
"When kids really progress further recognition, should not always put the praise on the lips. Unprincipled praise is not conducive to the growth of children, but also easy to make it complacent, reduce mental capacity." Shen Hung said,air jordan soldes, such as child The food problem,http://www.elmorron.com/index.php?option=com_blog&view=blog, for just school kids, time to eat, not picky eaters, not leftovers really hard to get, so in a year, if the children can do this,parajumpers jakke, the teacher will reward him a little card on his efforts affirmed. And when the children ascend to higher grades, which is that he should do, so the teacher will not be rewarded.
Physical exercise is the best Frustration Education
"In the clinic, I often ask parents what you love kids? The answer is often the parents 'good results'. That aside this, also liked something else? Likelihood of parents answered 'do not know' . "director of psychology seven hospitals in Hangzhou Chen Shulin said.
This is the appreciation of education and now the vast majority of parents conducted, as long as performance is good, praise it blindly, excessive protection to the child, rather than truly to appreciate the child's strengths.
In Chen Shulin seems to pay attention to the real appreciation of the principles of education, should the sake of discussion. Encourage your child to compete, talk to people more than their own good, because society can encourage people to compare progress.
Now a family is often only one child, everyone he was the center, there is no shortage of praise and praise. These children lack is the collective competitive environment can also be understood as a setback.
As a parent, how to create a competitive environment for the children performed a collective frustration education? Chen Shulin said: "Exercise is the best choice."
Chen Shulin said his son's frustration education. Only 8-year-old son to practice taekwondo, not as people just getting started when the children especially frustrating. He encouraged his son, said: "This failure does not matter, the next time we lose out to other people like." As a result, the children really won the next home to discuss reward.
Chen Shulin did not let him do so, but for him to develop a higher goal. Over time, with the changing colors of belts, children not only a sense of accomplishment,http://www.hao24.cn?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, but also know the "Mountains Beyond Mountains, people beyond the" truth.
Finally, Chen Shulin want to tell all the parents, the child's appreciation of education is a must, but do not because you no principles, and let the children have lost their self.