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When life countdown bell has sounded, advanced cancer patients With what kind of mood, finish this last journey? How to deal with the patient's family and loved ones to leave the painful blow?
In the Sun Yat-sen Cancer Center, psychological soothing mental nurses group witnessed a scene of a marvel. Someone points at the bedside possessions, stimulate the patient, but also the upcoming year Farewell couple read love letters written in the ward, loving farewell ceremony was held. Mom son on the eve of the wedding dress and family farewell, send blessings on the child.
Mental nurse said calmly face death requires wisdom, courage, need family love and companionship to help terminally ill patients to put down the fear of death,giubotti moncler moncler sconti, and his own life to achieve reconciliation.
Pancreatic cancer is relatively dangerous kind of cancer, to detect cancer patients from around forever, probably only a few months time, a greater emotional impact on families.
The couple listening to music in the ward, look at albums, warm memories of past stories
Over seventy years of age are limber (a pseudonym) was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in the first five months, the last time in hospital, his life has entered the countdown stage. Elderly senior intellectuals, very open to life and death, but also ready to meet death. However, in the rounds, mental nurse found that the elderly frowning.
Limber from troubled young 20s than his wife Zheng aunt (a pseudonym). Since the diagnosis, Zheng aunt still can not accept the fact that her husband is about to Sashourenhuan. The couple very good relationship, originally planned to travel the world together, did not expect the body has always been tough limber suddenly the cancer down. Because of the therapeutic effect of high expectations, Zheng aunt limber unwilling to accept palliative care, doctors strongly urged him to take drastic action, active treatment. But the old man's body has been unable to withstand the impact of the drug.
With the deterioration of the disease, Zheng aunt emotions are increasingly out of control. Every day, she secretly in tears in front of limber but efforts smile, repeatedly told him: "? You can not die, you die how I do," limber Loved daughter,moncler sito ufficiale italia moncler uomo giubbotti, whenever he was suffering the side effects of drugs so When was unable to adhere to treatment, Zheng aunt would encourage him: "Can not give up, you have to marry her which saw God." She tried to use these methods to arouse limber will to live, but unfortunately with little success, but to make their own The mood on the verge of collapse.
After psychological persuasion nurse time and time again, Zheng aunt slowly realized, limber departure is irreparable thing. Family members have high expectations for treatment, will only make a nice old time worried family after bad, you can not go ease. Families to do is to cooperate with medical treatment,doudoune moncler femme pas cher, as long as possible limber survival time, reduce pain,http://www.comunitatis.com/pasmo/index.php?option=com_blog&view=comments&pid=940436&Itemid=0, let him enjoy their grandchildren over time.
And loved ones a little longer, listen to children's voices,http://www.jabros.com/forums/profile.php?id=770, warm hands clenched relatives of dying patients, comparable analgesic effect. However, limber beloved daughter busy with work and can not always come bedside visits. In psychological nurse reminder, the youngest daughter turned down the job to stay with his father every night to chat. However, there are still boulders fit limber mind: he feared sentimental wife lose, will follow their own away.
How can I let him go at ease? Zheng aunt remembered them fall in love happy in the past. Year age differences between the two is only withstood heavy pressure came together, all these years to each other, leaving a lot of good memories. Zheng aunt decided to "Love Farewell" ceremony, farewell limber. She put the recorder to the ward, the limber favorite music, look at the two albums together warm memories of stories along the way. Zheng aunt also pulls wrote two decades ago sweet love letter from home. Limber and her soulful reading every day in the ward, read the depths of love, two people quietly looking, very touching scene.
For cancer patients, their families, their loved ones hardest to open a "funeral plan how to do?" Limber until the last few days of life, Zheng aunt still unable to open their mouths against him. Finally, the choice of what the memorial photos, what do you want to explain the family to do, is in front of her face by a mental nurse asked for help exports. Limber handpicked standard funerary, to give friends and relatives leaving the best impression. Eventually, the old man in the company of his wife and daughter,moncler rivenditori collezione moncler 2013, serenely finish worldly way.
No time to attend his son wedding, wearing a red velvet dress when she decided to leave
"In the face of life and death sad, gender differences were apparent. Male patients more likely to suppress their feelings, knocked out teeth and blood swallow, chew alone in silence rather painful." Sun Yat-sen Cancer Center Team Leader relieve psychological Huang Wei said yesterday that,louboutin pas cheres store louboutin, while female patients are more inclined to talk through the tears and the pain soon to release, faster and easier to accept the fact that "the love of children, especially young children, will make them even stronger."
In Huang Wei memory, advanced breast cancer Aunt Lee (a pseudonym) makes exceptionally moving. In the last 51 years of her life, has maintained an optimistic attitude and female elegant demeanor. When ill, she was active in organizing his son's wedding, I did not realize after several efforts,http://www.cqche.net/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=56547, she could not stick to the wedding ceremony that day. "Before I left, she told us,christian louboutin wikipédia la marque louboutin, you want to leave with dignity, hope relatives recall her, she still will feel better." Huang Wei recalled that Lee aunt reluctant to play it is with a heavy heart's memorial service dirge, personally selected Leslie "Fengjixuchui" as the theme song for the memorial service, meaning "love will continue." She helped her urge medical staff dressed in red velvet dress to wear when she left, it was the wedding of her son prepared to participate in costumes, as an expression of his son's love and blessings.
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In Huang Wei seems that some patients angry, unwilling, unable to forgive their loved ones,air max 90 homme noir nike air max 90 bleu et blanc, from the reconciliation can not be achieved with the previous journey of life and loved ones. "What we do in life is to help them review,moncler borse, acknowledge their past,http://gwarez-bb.org/viewtopic.php?f=26&t=69631, let the patient down the anger, calm down." Said Huang Wei, death education meant to help people correct view of past life, relieved to right, to re-understand the value of life. Accepted the illness as well as the reality of life is about to end, we can think calmly finished Gairuhezou final journey in life, realize unfulfilled aspirations. "Death is the ultimate destination of every life only with his life reconciliation can be more cherish every moment." Huang Wei said that the living people, it is also equally important. (Text / correspondent correspondent Ren Shanshan Huang Jinjuan Europe Xiaofang)